How Much??

Just to give an acceptable reason in why i yet again made this loong break..i can just say that i attended BTN camp..now note here that i DID not state whether i had to, or i wanted to or if i was interested to..i put i attended. Why? because somehow whatever reasons that might have emerged at the time i arrived at the camp, it all should just be put aside..because sincerely, i think this is one of the most 'crammed full of info' camps i had ever participated in..and i kinda liked it because it gave me time to think alot and read alot of things which all this while i kept aside..
So back to the main topic, this post is dedicated especially for a certain incident that really pulled my heart at the end of the camp...The incident is as follows..We were all bidding farewell at the camp..and suddenly i saw a guy, lingering around as if waiting for someone..everyone was like all bustling to go home but he was as if trying to wait..Why?? That was the exact question hovering in my mind when i saw him
So just FYI, i am a person who loves analysing, so in seeing him, i accidently made some, and i bet you know how it goes that when once you guess, you could stand to wait just for the sake of wanting to know whether your presumptions were right rite? And thats what i did..
So a couple of minutes after that, a girl passed the guy, and the guy called her..She stopped.Then he called a friend who was waiting there with him,and he said something..(Opps, sorry..forgot to tell..i was in the bus already so i kinda couldnt hear)Back to the story, the friend was holding a camera...then..believe it or not..The girl signalled something which i guess meant to decline, and she just took off...Yeah you could probably see now, that he wanted to take a picture with her.

Now, speaking as a guy, I TOTALLY respect what she did...What? you think it was simple, dont tell me everyone could do that..i mean..for guys yeah, we could easily push aside anything...but for a girl, it must be REALLY hard...So then i began questioning myself, what made her act as so??
How can someone so fragile stand out and clear up her position with such pure bravery..I mean, he might not even see her after this..she could just take the snap, and get going..or could she??then why didnt she??Because today we see girls, some so claim to have understood Islam, some don't even care..but what matters the most is nearly all would melt when provoked by men..and at that time all understandings and beliefs just vanished into thin air..WHY?Have we men got magic?? Or maybe we have these flying Cupids??As a guy, i apologise but the truth is, Allah has created you girls with a softer heart, and the heart has tendency to be melted by men. 
If you ask me, at that time, my heart was full of pride, proud to know that there still exists women in this world that acknowledged something much larger than her petite body..Something that when touched, responsed perfectly and wisely, that even the toughest of hearts could look down and surrender..What I saw..was PRINCIPLESWhat I saw..was VALUES

So my question to you now..
To what extent can you stand when confronted with these situations??How FIRM are your principles??How much do YOU cost??
Ya Allah.For women are like the ribs.I pray, meet them with men who know and care that they're bent.

Urgh

Dear sisters (and brothers too if ur interested), come, please watch..

Yeah, i deliberately covered up the TV channel..lets just say all matters of 'prevention' must be applied..

This is Allah's opinion.

	Al-Ahzab 59. Oh Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women so as not to be annoyed.

and this.

An-Nur 31. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, andto draw their veils over their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornmentsave to their own husbands or fathers or husbands' fathers, or their sonsor their husbands' sons, or their brothers or their brothers' sons orsisters' sons, or their women, or their slaves, or male attendants who lackvigour, or children who know naught of women's nakedness. And let them notstamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. Andturn unto Allah together, O believers, in order that ye may succeed.

Hadith?

	[Sunann Abi Dawud Hadith No. 3577]. Aisha (RA) mentioned the women of Ansar, praised them and said good words about them. She then said: "When Surat an-Nur came down, they took the curtains, tore them and and made veils from them."

My opinion??
Shockingly, disgusting.

Now watch this

Ya Allah.Forgive me for my mistakes.Aid me with what I said.
For You are the Almighty